Walking Together after Brexit and the General Synod
What do we do when we are divided and want the opposite to
one another? We face this as a country
after the vote for Brexit. We are split
in half. A small majority will take us
out of the EU, but then what? Can we
ever be a united country again?
The Church is also divided.
I have just come back from the General Synod in York. We decided to do something about our
divisions over sexuality. For 48 hours,
we met for conversations. We learned
about one another and why we believe what we do. There were tears, hugs, laughter, profound
insights and differences. I left
exhausted, but hopeful that we can walk together into the future.
We still disagree.
But now we understanding better where that disagreement comes from. Most importantly we have stronger
relationships. We see less of an issue,
and more of the people it affects. What
we did was meet, share our stories, talk about our beliefs, and listen to those
with whom we disagree. It was all
surrounded by prayer.
So as we try to find a way forward after the referendum, the
church’s conversations might have something to offer. Let’s try this: find someone who voted the opposite way to
you. Listen to them hard and
carefully. Learn about their story. Ask them why they voted that way. Be prepared to share your story and reasons
for voting. It probably won’t make you
both agree, but you might understand one another more. If you pray, then pray for them, for yourself
and for the future of our country.
From The Derby Telegraph Faith Files 16.7.16.
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